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Embracing the Unknown – My Journey Through the Dark Night of the Soul

Updated: May 13


A few years back, I felt like I was losing my mind. It was probably my first dark night of the soul. I don’t remember every detail, but I remember the weight of it – the confusion, the disorientation, the sense that my world had shifted in a way I couldn’t fully understand.


A Gentle Disclaimer: If you need medical or professional assistance, please seek it. I’m simply sharing my experience in the hope that it might offer a bit of perspective. Use your judgment and discern what resonates with you.


Out of nowhere, I found myself struggling to define my identity. It felt like someone had asked me, “Who are you?” and I had no answer. This feeling lingered for weeks, as if a switch had been flipped but my eyes couldn’t adjust to the light. My old reality no longer fit, and something unfamiliar was emerging that I couldn’t quite grasp. I lacked the language and support to sort through my confusion, and I genuinely worried I might be losing my sense of self.


Eventually, I turned to Google for answers – though I wouldn’t necessarily recommend this for medical advice – and stumbled upon the term “dark night of the soul.”


What is the Dark Night of the Soul?



The dark night of the soul is a period of profound spiritual confusion and transformation. It is a time when you feel disconnected from the Divine, unable to perceive your path clearly, and uncertain about your place in the world. It’s an unsettling liminal space, where the old self is breaking down to make way for a more authentic, aligned version of you.


In Western culture, darkness is often viewed as something negative – a void, a place of fear. But from a spiritual perspective, darkness is also a place of deep transformation and creation, the fertile ground from which all new life emerges.


For some, this period can last days or weeks, while for others, it may stretch into months or even years. It can be triggered by a sudden life change, a spiritual awakening, or a series of small but cumulative shifts that force you to confront the deeper aspects of yourself.


Signs and Symptoms of the Dark Night of the Soul



For me, the outside world remained the same – the same job, the same family dynamics, the same daily routines – but my inner world was in complete upheaval. I felt disconnected, restless, and profoundly unsettled.


  • Feeling Lost or Directionless: Questioning your purpose, identity, and place in the world.

  • Emotional Turbulence: Intense emotional waves, from deep sadness to sudden anger, with no clear trigger.

  • Physical Symptoms: Fatigue, loss of appetite, or insomnia as your body processes the energetic shifts.

  • Spiritual Disconnection: Feeling cut off from your intuition, guides, or sense of spiritual connection.

  • Existential Crisis: Questioning the meaning of life, the nature of reality, and the purpose of existence.

  • Desire for Solitude: Pulling away from relationships, social activities, or anything that feels inauthentic.



Every time I felt like I had regained my footing, life would throw another curveball my way, and I’d find myself back on the floor, tears streaming, questioning everything. It felt like the Universe was shaking me loose from old patterns, demanding that I shed my old skin and surrender to the unknown.



Navigating the Dark Night of the Soul



As I moved through this process, I learned that these periods of darkness are not just chaotic but alchemical. They are initiations – a spiritual shedding that prepares you for a deeper understanding of yourself and your connection to the Divine.


If you find yourself in this space, my advice is to surrender. Surrender to the present moment. Surrender to the stillness. Surrender to the discomfort of not knowing. Lean into the support of the Divine Mother, the feminine aspect of the Creator, if that resonates with your path. She is always there, waiting for you to reach out, ready to comfort and guide you as you come into form.


Know that this darkness is not a punishment. It is a recalibration – a necessary process to shed old beliefs, release outdated versions of yourself, and come back into alignment with your highest self. If you resist, you risk staying disconnected longer. But if you lean in, you can emerge clearer, more aligned, and more powerful than ever.


Reflect and Journal



  • Have you ever experienced a dark night of the soul? What triggered it, and what did you learn from it?

  • How did it change your understanding of yourself, your purpose, or your spiritual path?

  • What parts of yourself are you being asked to surrender or release right now?

  • How can you invite the energy of the Divine Mother or a comforting presence into your healing journey?



Take your time with these questions, and remember that every dark night eventually gives way to dawn.


With love,

Anusa ✨

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