Raising the Next Generation of Seekers

 My youngest daughter has a way of asking the most beautifully random questions – the kind that catch you off guard but also make you pause and reflect. She’s curious, insightful, and unafraid to explore the world around her, and I love that about her.

On our walk to school this morning, she asked, “Can only spiritual people wear crystals?”

I smiled, knowing that her questions are often a setup for something more.

“Hmm… what made you think of that?” I asked.

“I don’t know,” she replied, looking up at me with wide, curious eyes.

“Well,” I said, “anyone can wear crystals, but people who are aware of their spiritual nature often choose to wear them because they understand their power. Crystals are little pieces of the Earth, and they hold energy that can support us. For example, anyone can feel love, but someone might wear rose quartz to help them access or express the love they already have inside.”

“Oh, that makes sense!” she said, her eyes lighting up.

Then, after a brief pause, she added, “Can I have an amethyst bracelet?”

I laughed, realizing this was probably where the conversation was headed all along[... I mean how did she know about amethyst anyway???]

“Of course you can,” I said, giving her a hug and kiss as we reached her school.

Building A Connection

These moments remind me that our children are always listening, always learning, and always absorbing the energy we bring into their world. They come to us with pure hearts and open minds, seeking guidance, wisdom, and connection.

As mothers, we are their first teachers – not just through our words, but through the way we move through the world, the questions we ask, and the answers we’re willing to seek. In many ways, our bond with our daughters sets the tone for how they see themselves, their place in the world, and the depth of their own spiritual connection.

Choosing Our Children and Being Chosen in Return

I believe my daughter chose me for a reason. She chose me because, on some soul level, she knew I would meet her at her level of curiosity, make space for her big questions, and hold her hand as she explores the mysteries of the universe.

In many ways, she is the little girl I once was – the one who felt things deeply but didn’t always have the words to explain it. But now, as her mother, I have the opportunity to give her what I needed at her age – a safe place to ask questions, explore her spirituality, and see the world through a lens of wonder and possibility.

Reflective Prompts for Mothers and Daughters:

• How do I show up for my child when they are curious or confused?

• What lessons or guidance did I need as a child that I can now offer to my own children?

• How can I nurture my child’s sense of wonder and spiritual connection?

• What kind of relationship do I want to cultivate with my daughter as she grows?

• How can I create space for my child to explore their spiritual path, free from judgment or limitation?

A Gentle Reminder

We may not always have the perfect answers, and that’s okay. Sometimes, the most powerful thing we can do is simply be present, listen, and hold space for our children as they find their way.

After all, they chose us for a reason.

Be well.